You know what’s funny. That i’ve got loads of things i wanna share with you. Coz actually i’m curious about your thoughts too. The one thing is how far should i go? I mean, how personal should i be. Or actually ‘can’ i be. Let’s just see how far i can go. How far i dare to go. Coz writing is one thing. Posting is another. I’m always so incredible nervous when pressing the publish button. Or maybe it’s excitement. I guess a mix of both.
Do you know what’s really funny? Or actually it is not. That if someone asks you what you do, they expect an unambiguous answer. That is common. If you answer that you are for example a salesperson or manager, they understand. That’s easy. That’s clear. But if you answer that you are a writer, a baker and a DJ, then most of them are confused. That’s learned confusion learned.
Then you can expect a reaction like: ‘oh … you are .. eh … creative?’. Isn’t it crazy, that we need a name for it? We think it’s normal. Otherwise it is weird. And confusing. Of course that’s not normal. In short, how do you disentangle confusion? Continue reading “Confusion learned”
It’s already a year ago since the last day of the shop. I can still remember like it was yesterday. Time flies so incredibly fast. And I’ve posted so little. I know. Still I had plenty of plans. I’ve done a lot except sitting still. Although sitting still, doing nothing was one of my intensions. But I had lots of doubt ups and downs. Continue reading “Doubt ups and downs”
Now I was planning to start writing anyway. Just becoz it is great fun to write. But also becoz it’s some kind of therapy. I’m not a fan of clichés, but it is in a way that when you write something down you can let it go. And it works. But thanks to the many replies on my last post about ‘Doubts ups and downs’, you gave me this little push. Maybe this is just what I needed. So thank you very much! Continue reading “Writing therapy”
‘I’ve never had so many reactions en mails as last week. I do understand. The shop closed permanently is not something you see every day. I received so many emails with questions that unfortunately I can’t answer them all. So let me answer as many questions as I can in this blog.
Since i closed the shop in September 2017 i’ve been occupied with the question: What now? Even if you’re trying very hard to take it slow, there is always the pressure that you have to make a choice eventually. And as time passed by this pressure only grew. But what do you do if you don’t have a clue of what you want to do. Or what you can do. How to get to know yourself (again). Continue reading “Get to know yourself again”
Did you also have a dream of what you wanted to be when you grow up? Like ‘Later when I grow up…’. I did not. Although I am a dreamer. Or … is that just having a rich fantasy ..? But I did not exactly have a dream that I wanted to live up to. I just liked many things. Too many maybe. Still actually. Continue reading “Later when I grow up…”